Quotes on Conduct


"Invest Wisely. Everything Counts"
It may make a difference to all eternity whether we do right or wrong today.
James Freeman Clarke

"Guard The Ridges And Railways"
Good and evil both increase at compound interest. The smallest good act today is the capture of a strategic point from which, a few months later, you may be able to go on to victories you never dreamed of. An apparently trivial indulgence in lust or anger today is the loss of a ridge or railway line or bridgehead from which the enemy may launch an attack otherwise impossible. 
C.S. Lewis

"Resolution #17"
Resolved, that I will live so, as I shall wish I had done when I come to die.
Jonathan Edwards

“The Wasted Life”
God created me—and you—to live with a single, all-embracing, all-transforming passion—namely, a passion to glorify God by enjoying and displaying His supreme excellence in all the spheres of life...the mark of God-enthralled joy is to overflow and expand by extending itself into the hearts of others. The wasted life is the life without a passion for the supremacy of God in all things for the joy of all peoples...We waste our lives when we do not pray and think and dream and plan and work toward magnifying God in all spheres of life.
John Piper

"How To Fulfill Your Deepest Destiny"
We and God have business with each other; and in opening ourselves to His influence our deepest destiny is fulfilled. The universe ...takes a turn genuinely for the worse or for the better in proportion as each one of us fulfills or evades God's demands.
Williams James

“Keep a Tender Heart”
“A Navajo Indian tradition says that your conscience is like a small triangle inside your heart. When you know something is wrong, it turns and pricks the flesh of your heart with one of its corners. But when you harden your heart and ignore your conscience, it keeps turning, wearing down its corners in the effort to get your attention. Eventually the triangle gets so worn down that it becomes smooth and circular, spinning around and around in your heart but to no use. You can’t feel it anymore”
Alex and Brett Harris

“Guide Thy Bark Aright”
“...let us go back to the man who says that a thing cannot be wrong unless it hurts some other human being. He quite understands that he must not damage the other ships in the convoy, but he honestly thinks that what he does to his own ship is simply his own business. But does it not make a great difference whether his ship is his own property or not? Does it not make a great difference whether I am, so to speak, the landlord of my own mind and body, or only a tenant, responsible to the real landlord?...Now there are a good many things which would not be worth bothering about if I were going to live only seventy years, but which I had better bother about very seriously if I am going to live for ever...if we are to think about morality, we must think of all three departments: relations between man and man: things inside each man: and relations between man and the power that made him.”
C.S. Lewis

"Buck The Trend"
Modern morality consists in accepting the standard of one's age. I consider that for any man of culture to accept the standard of his age is a form of the grossest immorality.
Oscar Wilde

"Pleasure After Pain"
Morality turns on whether the pleasure precedes or follows the pain.
Samuel Butler

"Pleasure Minus Harm"
Enjoy and give pleasure, without doing harm to yourself or to anyone else - that, I think, is the whole of morality.
Chamfort

"Hide Nothing"
Don't do anything you're not prepared to see in the papers the next morning.
Anonymous

"Success"
To laugh often and much;
to win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
to earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty;
to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better
whether by a healthy child,
a garden patch,
or a redeemed social condition;
to know even one life has breathed easier
because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.
Bessie Anderson Stanley

"Who's Responsible?"
Responsible persons are mature people who have taken charge of themselves and their conduct, who own their actions and own up to them—who answer for them
William J. Bennett

"...And Heaven Takes Note"
Not a day passes over this earth, but men and women of no note do great deeds, speak great words and suffer noble sorrows.
Charles Reed

"Work With Him"
The Bible really seems to clinch the matter when it puts the two things together into one amazing sentence. The first half is, "Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling"-which looks as if everything depended on us and our good actions: but the second half goes on, "For it is God who worketh in you"- which looks as if God did everything and we nothing...God and man are working together.
C.S. Lewis

"Direct Your Instincts"
...there are no such things as good and bad impulses. Think again of a piano. It has not got two kinds of notes on it, the 'right' notes and the 'wrong' ones. Every single note is right at the one time and wrong at another. The Moral Law is not any one instinct or set of instincts: it is something which makes a kind of tune (the tune we call goodness or right conduct) by directing the instincts.
C.S. Lewis

"Everything We Do"
The art of acting morally is behaving as if everything we do matters.
Gloria Steinem

"Trendy Morals"
I cannot and will not cut my conscience to fit this year's fashions.
Lillian Hellman

"Valueless Certainty"
Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct.
Thomas Carlyle

"Don't Forget To Dust"
He shows much more of Himself to some people than to others -- not because He has favorites, but because it is impossible for Him to show Himself to a man whose whole mind and character are in the wrong condition. Just as sunlight, though it has no favorites, cannot be reflected in a dusty mirror as clearly as a clean one.
C.S. Lewis

"How To Read Minds"
We know what a person thinks not when he tells us what he thinks, but by his actions.
Isaac Bashevis Singer

"All Things Pertaining To Life And Godliness"
He who gave our nature to be perfected by our virtue willed also the necessary means of its perfection.
Edmund Burke

"Efficiently Effective"
Efficiency is concerned with doing things right. Effectiveness is doing the right things.
Peter F. Drucker

"Don't Do Anything I Wouldn't Do"
Neither urge another to that thou wouldst be unwilling to do thyself, nor do thyself what looks to thee unseemly and intemperate in another.
William Penn

"Reflect And Proceed"
Think like a man of action, act like a man of thought
Henri Bergson

"Be Good"
To the good I would be good; to the not-good I would also be good, in order to make them good.
Lao-Tzu

"As A Ring Of Gold In A Swine's Snout"
Virtue may not always make a Face handsome, but Vice will certainly make it ugly.
Benjamin Franklin

"Guaranteed GPS"
No man ever got lost on a straight road
Abraham Lincoln

"Griefworthy"

Do not be grieved if you do not enjoy popular favor; grieve rather that you do not live as well and carefully as befits a servant of God.
Thomas a Kempis

"Your Decision: A Son Like John, Or A Tool Like Judas?"
A merciful man aims at his neighbour's good as so does 'God's' will, consciously co-operating with 'the simple good'. A cruel man oppresses his neighbour and so does simple evil. But in doing such evil he is used by God, without his knowledge or consent, to produce the complex good — so that the first man serves God as a son, and the second as a tool. For you will certainly carry out God's purpose, however you act, but it makes a difference to you whether you serve like Judas or like John.
C.S. Lewis

"Greatness Is Goodness"

They are only great who are truly good.
George Chapman

"As Instruments of Righteousness"

Let your eye be chaste, your hand faithful, your tongue truthful and your heart enlightened.
Tablet of Baha’u'llah

"Morality = Joy"

All theories of morality agree in considering that conduct whose total results, immediate and remote, are beneficial, is good conduct; while conduct whose total results, immediate and remote, are injurious, is bad conduct. The happiness or misery caused by it are the ultimate standards by which all men judge of behavior.
Herbert Spencer

"Acquiring A Taste For Obedience"
...action precedes love. The...way to get to like doing God's work...is to throw yourself into it.
Andree Seu

"Wait For Clarity"
Act nothing in furious Passion; it's putting to Sea in a Storm.
Thomas Fuller

"He Has Honor"
He has honor if he holds himself to an ideal of conduct though it is inconvenient, unprofitable, or dangerous to do so.
Walter Lippmann

"Thy Father Sees From Heaven And Will Reward You"
Better to deserve honor and not have it than to have honor and not deserve it.
Portuguese Saying

"Trying To Make Someone Else Look Bad?"
He who violates another's honor loses his own.
Publius Syrus

"For Nothing is Hidden That Will Not Become Evident"

Whenever you are to do a thing, though it can never be known but to yourself, ask yourself how you would act were the whole world looking at you, and act accordingly.
Thomas Jefferson

"What If Everyone Did That?"

There is...only one categorical imperative: It is: Act only according to that maxim by which you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law.
Immanuel Kant

"The Right Thing At The Right Time"

The character of every act depends upon the circumstances in which it is done.
Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Choose Your Asphalt"
The road to Hell is paved with good intentions, the road to Heaven is paved with good deeds.
Anonymous

"Ugly In Them? Ugly In Me."
Neither urge another to that thou wouldst be unwilling to do thyself, nor do thyself what looks to thee unseemly and intemperate in another.
William Penn

"Consider The Lilies Of The Field"
Those who make their dress a principal part of themselves, will, in general, become of no more value than their dress.
William Hazlitt

"Becoming You"
One does what one is; one becomes what one does.
Robert von Musil

"American Idols"

 While we may not be physically slaughtering our children before literal blocks of stone or wood, doesn’t idolatry continue to plague us? Who among us could deny that if the apostle Paul was looking over the average American city, his spirit would be “provoked within him as he saw that the city was full of idols” (Acts 17:16)? Though we live thousands of years after Ezekiel and Paul, our sons and daughters continue to be sacrificed on the altars of modern society . ҉   Millions of unborn babies are slaughtered every year on the abortive altar of Selfishness. Sons are offered at the altar of Sports. Daughters are placed on the altar of Sexuality. The Temple of Materialism overflows with adherents. Shrines to Pride and Ego stand prominently in every neighborhood. Fulfillment is sought at the altar of Busyness and Celebrity is worshiped at the altar of Fame. The time, geography and culture has changed, but the sinful tragedy marches on. With our idols we are guilty of unfaithfulness to our Creator. And we even offer our own God-given children in sacrifice to people and things that are not gods. . ҉    Dads, what do you want most for your children? Moms, what is your greatest aspiration for your sons and daughters? We know how we ought to answer that question, but what are we communicating to our heritage day after day, TV-show after TV-show, weekend after weekend? How are the priorities of our children being shaped as they follow the lead of our own living? Who or what is shown to be worthy of worship in our homes? Are we teaching our children that Almighty God is to be held as reverently ultimate and consistently worthy of the highest place in every single aspect of daily life?
. ҉   ...Moms and Dads, let’s not waste this precious time. When “enough is enough,” let’s have the courage to say so. As unrighteous danger and moral decay continues to creep into our homes, let’s have the fortitude to tune out, log off and fight back. Let’s take the time, not only to say “No” to our children, but to explain why. Let’s lovingly and consistently teach our children what is “out of bounds.” Let’s model for our children that the God of heaven alone is worthy of our worship.
Jason Hardin

“The Sweetest Charm”

“Unaffected modesty is the sweetest charm of female excellence, the richest gem in the diadem of her honor”
Webster’s Dictionary 1828

“Always Right”

The time is always right to do what is right
Martin Luther King, Jr.

"The Ends Do Not Justify The Means"
The glory of great men must always be measured against the means they have used to acquire it.
La Rochefoucauld

"What Benjamin Franklin Asked Himself Upon Awakening And Sleeping"
What good shall I do today?...What good have I done today?"

"Dress The Part. Why?"
You become what you pretend to be.
Author Unknown

"A Good Name Is Better Than A Good Ointment"
Our names are labels, plainly printed on the bottled essence of our past behavior
Logan Pearsall Smith

"Promising Carefully"
He who is slow in making a promise is most faithful in its performance.
Jean Jacques Rousseau

"What Lies Within"
What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared with what lies within us"
Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Viewing Media With Deathbed Clarity"
                I don’t want to wait until everything is clearer on my deathbed; I would like my deathbed clarity now, when it can still do some good. I expect that one of the things I will regret on that day “when the keepers of the house tremble, and the strong men are bent, and the grinders cease because they are few,” is the movies and TV shows I allow myself to see. . ҉    In truth, this allowance has been more drift than philosophy, but to the extent that you can dignify half-conscious notions with the status of convictions, mine have been the following: (1) I am no legalist, and (2) one must be informed about the culture. . ҉   The interesting thing about these self-justifications, as I view them at the moment, is that they are nowhere to be found in the Bible. Oh, some crafty person can wrest them out of the Word “by good and necessary consequences,” as they say. I can imagine the texts rustled to the rescue: Galatians will be a rich vein. And Colossians 2:21, where Paul excoriates teachers of “Do not handle, do not taste, do not touch,” who put rule keeping for true piety. . ҉   What is unequivocal in the Bible is the command to love God with all your heart. What has no ambiguity is the call to pure eyes that alone will see God. What is not fudgeable is that we are to put God’s word above the word of man. . ҉    Evan Thomas went around Wales during the great Revival of 1906 telling folks to “put away everything doubtful in your life.” I like that. You have to think about that one. I sometimes get deathbed inklings. I feel quite sure that when the death dew lies on my brow, I will not think it had been necessary to see a raunchy movie in order to be better informed about the culture.
Andree Seu

"Making Character"
Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones.
Phillips Brooks

"This Moment's Obedience"
All the real action in the Christian life takes place on the cellular level of this moment’s obedience to this moment’s call.
Andree Seu

"Seven Essential Life Skills"

1)Focus and Self Control
2)Perspective Taking
3)Communicating
4)Making Connections
5)Critical Thinking
6)Taking on Challenges
7)Self-Directed, Engaged Learning.
Ellen Galinsky

"Andree's Aphorisms"
(Selected)
People laugh at your unwholesome talk at the moment but think less of you afterwards.
Marry a man who loves God more than he loves you.
Neglect a phone call, lose a friend.
I complained, "God hasn't answered my prayer." That's because I was not looking for help in my weakness but for the removal of my weakness to the praise of my own glory.
Sit on a sensitive letter for three days before sending it.
A phone call to say, "I'm thinking of you," yields benefits all out of proportion to the time investment.
The best teaching moments are never at convenient times.
An idol forfeits your life. You look back and say you never lived.
God is the better chess player. Just obey.
Talent is good, but faithfulness is better.
Tell your child what delights you about him.
Drop the dust rag and look at your child when he's telling you a story.
Andree Seu

"A Letter To Departing Soldiers"
Dear Soldier
I’ve been thinking about the true statement you said about how the military is going to change you. It’s can’t not.
. ҉    My prayer for you is that when you see death, it will make you treasure life.
When you see suffering it will make you that much more compassionate.
When you see soldiers using and degrading women, may you stand for honor.
When you see violence, my prayer is that it will make you love peace.
When you see poverty, may your response be gratitude for when and where you were born.
When you feel pain, use it to long for heaven.
When you see courage may it empower you, and
when you see sacrifice- remember Christ’s for your forgiveness.
When you see selflessness, and are yourself selfless, know that we appreciate all you are doing to keep our country safe and free.
Stand firm. Stand strong.
Cindy Dunagan

"Goes Around Comes Around"
He finds assistance in adversity who renders services in prosperity.
Publius Syrus

"How To Test A Nation's Quality"
The condition of women affords in all countries the best criterion by which to judge the character of men.
Frances Wright

"How To Silence One's Enemy"
No matter: I will live so that none shall believe him.
Plato

"The Superior Man Verses The Small Man"
The superior man thinks of virtue; the small man thinks of comfort.
Confucius

"Why Virtue?"
The purpose of all virtue is to lead us to union with God.
St. John of the Cross

"Between The Two Extremes"
Virtue is a mean between two vices.
Aristotle

"Searching"
Search others for their Virtues, and thyself for thy Vices.
Thomas Fuller

"Take The Long Way Home"
Wickedness is always easier than virtue, for it takes the shortcut to everything.
Samuel Johnson

Quotes on Prayer


"Your Prayer Has Always Contributed"
A man who knew empirically that an event had been caused by his prayer would feel like a magician. His head would turn and his heart would be corrupted. The Christian is not to ask whether this or that event happened because of a prayer. He is rather to believe that all events without exception are answers to prayer in the sense that whether they are grantings or refusals the prayers of all concerned and their needs have all been taken into account...We must not picture destiny as a film unrolling for the most part on its own, but in which are prayers are sometimes allowed to insert additional items. On the contrary; what the film displays to us as she unrolls already
contains the results of our prayers and all our other acts. There is no question whether an event has happened because of your prayer. When the event you prayed for occurs, your prayer has always contributed to it. When the opposite event occurs, your prayer has never been ignored; it has been considered and refused for your ultimate good and the good of the whole universe.(For example, because it is better for you and for everyone else in the long run that other people, including wicked ones, should exercise free will than that you should be protected from cruelty or treachery by turning the human race into automata.) But this is, and must remain, a matter of faith.
C.S. Lewis

"The Holiness of Prayer"
Prayer means that we have come boldly into the throne room and we are standing in His presence.
E.W. Kenyon

"The Spirit Intercedes"
Every minute on the clock that you are engaged in praying is a minute in heaven that the Spirit is speaking to the Father with wonderfully perfect words on your behalf.
Andre Seu

"Feeling Powerless?"
Prayer is the golden key that opens heaven.
Thomas Watson

"With Earnestness"
Pray as if everything depends on God; act as if everything depends on you.
Saying

"Be Not Too Dignified to Unveil Thine Heart"
...we want to know not how we should pray if we were perfect but how we should pray being as we are now. And if my idea of prayer as "unveiling" is accepted, we have already answered this. It is no use to ask God factitious earnestness for A when our whole mind is in reality filled with the desire for B. We must lay before Him what is in us, not what ought to be in us...And perhaps, as those who do not turn to God in petty trials will have no 'habit' or such resort to help them when the great trials come, so those who have not learned to ask Him for childish things will have less readiness to ask Him for great ones. We must not be too high-minded. I fancy we may sometimes be deterred from small prayers by a sense of our own dignity rather than of God's.
C.S. Lewis

"Praying With Both Body and Soul"
When one prays in strange places and at strange times one can't kneel, to be sure. I won't say this doesn't matter. The body ought to pray a well as the soul. Body and soul are both the better for it.
C.S. Lewis

"The Supreme Delight Of God's Presence"
It is in recognizing the actual presence of God that we find prayer no longer a chore, but a supreme delight.
Gordon Lindsay

"Pray Outlandishly"
One’s prayer life is a useful index of one’s level of faith. If your prayer life does not contain a certain amount of outlandishly improbable scenarios for the advance of Kingdom of God, for your children’s salvation, for your own sanctification—if, in fact, your imagination has never even been stretched to entertain such requests—maybe you can join me in this daily exercise too: “Lord, I believe that nothing is impossible with You! I believe that You can (fill in the blank with your personal impossibilities).” ...There are two ways of looking at everything that life throws up at us. We can always be “reasonable” (but watch out for low expectations of God masquerading as reasonableness) or we can say, “With God all things are possible.”
Andree Seu

"Before Approaching The Throne"
When you pray, know before Whom you stand.
Talmud

"Into The Bosom of Omnipotent Love"
The great thing in prayer is to feel that we are putting our supplications into the bosom of omnipotent love.
 Andrew Murray

"Life or Death"
We must wrestle earnestly in prayer, like men contending with a deadly enemy for life.
J.C. Ryle

“Be pleased, O LORD, to deliver me! O LORD, make haste to help me!”
 I am glad to learn from this Psalm [41] that it is important to be willing to “wait patiently” for his answers (verse 1), but also that I may be bold enough to ask the Lord to “make haste.”
 The psalmist has waited patiently in past troubles, and has found that God comes through. We know this because he testifies in verses 2 and 3 about past experience with prayer results: “He drew me up from the pit, out of the miry bog.” If God can do it once, He can do it twice—and a thousand times. And it is the memory of past deliverances that helps us to hang in there with present afflictions. But we can never have those empowering memories unless we begin now to walk in faith in present troubles.
 It is beyond me why the Lord tarries. But one thing is evident: The Lord is interested in making us into habitual prayers. Immediate answers and rescues do not make for inveterate life habits of continuous prayer; they make for amnesia. And they make for a God-as-my-personal-valet mentality. You can’t deny that we hardly remember answers granted too quickly.
A Peruvian pastor told me that on New Year’s Eve, a pastor he knew had his parishioners write their major personal prayer requests on a piece of paper and put them in a sealed envelope and keep them safe. One year later the pastor asked them if they could remember what was written on the paper. Most of them could not. Prayer requests that we are not invested in with much daily prayer leave no footprint in the mind.
 It is not for His sake but for ours that God delays answering prayers. He likes the effect it has on us. We learn how to surrender more and more of ourselves and our agenda and our will. We may start off praying like this: “Lord, please give me a new job; this one stinks.” When nothing happens after a few weeks, we may start praying like this: “Lord, please teach me what you are trying to teach me by keeping me in this job.” A little more time passes and we may pray like this: “Lord, help me to be content and show me how to honor you while you have me in this job.”
It is obvious that the psalmist has been holding on for a long time, and doesn’t know how much longer he can. He has, in the meantime, perhaps unknown to himself, created a deep groove in his soul, running from his mouth to God’s ear; he prays constantly. Paul Miller writes in A Praying Life: “Instead of trying to suppress anxiety, manage it, or smother it with pleasure, we can turn our anxiety toward God. When we do that, we’ll discover that we’ve slipped into continuous praying.” Imagine “slipping” into praying all day long. It is wonderful, and feels normal and right.
 And when we have done that, we have become like Jesus—which is God’s big idea anyway. Did you really think He was as interested in you keeping your job as in your trusting Him through the loss of it? Did you really think God was as interested in your present comfort as in the growth of your faith in Him? Did you really think He was as interested in you having a good reputation with everyone as in your trusting Him through the pain of a bad reputation?
Andree Seu

"Light The Fire"
Prayer is the incense of a holy heart
Rising to God from bruised and broken things,
When kindled by the Spirit's burning breath
And upward borne by faith's ascending wings.
A. B. Simpson

"What God Wants"
If God answered all your prayers immediately, you would have yourself a fine prayer-dispenser machine—not a relationship. But God is into relationship, as evidenced by His having been in one for all eternity. Here are a few good things God wants for you in the deserts and ambiguity that stretch between asking and receiving:

* He wants you to have a chance to get to know Him.
* He wants you to have a chance to get to know yourself.
* He wants to expose your idols—and deal with them—in a natural way.
* He wants you to be in the story with Him, co-creating it as an authentic agent and not a puppet.
* He wants you to watch him weave the circumstances of your life into a work of art.
* He wants you to come to the point of surrendering completely.
* He wants you to learn to trust Him.
* He wants you to know what perplexity and the silence of God feel like, so that you can help others who are going through it.
* He wants you to have...joy at the way He finally answers your prayer, rather than the lesser joy of an answer given too soon.
* He wants you to get to see, when you emerge from the desert, that He was there all along.
* He wants you to have a chance to hold on tight to him in the middle of the story, when you see no light—and then He wants to reward you for that...
* He wants to give you a chance to walk by faith and not by sight, not as a mere slogan or abstract doctrine but as an every-moment dance.
* He wants to give you a chance to learn that praying, as Miller writes, is “inseparable from repenting, serving, managing, waiting,” and not an add-on in your life.
* He wants to give you “victory over little pockets of evil,” writes Miller.
* He wants to give you a chance to reject what seem like answers to prayer on a silver platter that have, as Miller writes, “little tests of integrity” attached to them.
He wants relationship. How about you?
Andree Seu/ Paul Miller "A Praying Life"

"Preparing Or Producing"
The old way in my Christian life was to be always preparing to live for God. Satan was well pleased. We do a lot more talking about the Christian life than living it, seems to me... we prepare on Sunday morning. We prepare at retreats, and fill our notebooks with great weekend insights that land on the shelf. How many times have I practically knocked over spiritually dying people trying to get to the women’s Bible study on time? That’s the parable of the Good Samaritan.

So I have started praying for random people—at the mall, at the cemetery where I walk. One benefit I find is that if you pray for the person you pass at the mall, you cannot simultaneously judge him, lust after him, or engage in any other fleshly preoccupation. I think this new posture is taking on a momentum of its own and producing a new lifestyle. It primes the pump, you see, and creates a groove between oneself and God that gets deeper and more natural day by day.
Andree Seu

"Opening And Closing Your Day"
Let prayer be the key of the day and the bolt of the night.
Jean Paul Richter

"Practical Advise"
 I picked up a little pamphlet from the rack in the foyer of a church I was visiting titled “Squeezing Prayer into a Busy Life.” I could imagine various possible directions for the six pages that would follow. The writer could tell us that if we really loved God we would find time to pray. He could tell us that he himself loves praying more than football. He could tell us that if we don’t pray a lot, maybe we ought to examine ourselves to see if we’re really even Christians at all!
This particular writer, Jim Auer, takes a different tack. He gently invites us to consider that the problem of time management might mask a few deeper blocks to prayer that we’re unaware of, which he then proceeds to deal with helpfully. At one point he comes up with the idea of using any of the day’s small happenings as grist for the mill of prayer. Example:
 “Prayer Over Empty Beer Cans Discarded on the Sidewalk: ‘Lord, please be with whoever left these cans. If they drank from sorrow, heal their hurt. If they drank to escape, help them to face their difficulty. . . .”
 I like that...Sometimes we spiritual slackers can be helped immensely by a concrete suggestion or two.
Andree Seu

"Stake Your Claim"
The Lord has a storehouse of unasked for prayers just waiting to be claimed
Author Unknown

"If You Only Knew"
 “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water” (John 4:10).
 If you and I knew who Jesus was—really, really knew—would we pray differently? Wouldn’t it expand our imagination? Isn’t this what Jesus is saying to this Samaritan woman he has struck up a conversation with at the well: “Lady, if you really knew who you were talking to here, you and I wouldn’t be wasting our time in theological debate; you would be inundating me with requests for all your spiritual needs”?
My dullness about God tends to fall along two lines: Dullness about how powerful he wants to be in our lives and dullness about how involved he wants to be in our lives. I act as if forgiveness of sins is His entire gift, and not also the breaking of bondages, the bending of impossibilities, and the undoing varieties of the devil’s handiwork (1 John 3:8). He commended people who gave Him no rest in these concerns.
   Two blind men gave Him no rest. They cried out to Jesus, and not only did He ignore them, He walked into someone’s house. They had to barge in after Him before they got satisfaction (Matthew 9:27-31).
The Syrophoenician woman gave Him no rest. She begged to the point of harassment, and Jesus gave her no encouragement. But she would not be put off until she got satisfaction (Mark 7:24-30).
Maybe Jesus was waiting to see how badly they wanted what they wanted, and how strongly they believed He was both merciful and able.
What is it that you wished for today that you kept to yourself and didn’t even think to pray for because you didn’t believe God would be willing to grant it?
Andree Seu

"Thank God For Beauty And Answered Prayer"
Answered prayers cover the field of providential history as flowers cover the western prairies.
T.L. Cuyler

"Timelessness, Prayer, and Freewill"
When we are praying about the result, say, of a battle or a medical consultation, the thought will often cross our minds that, if we only knew it, the event is already decided one way or the other. I believe this to be no good reason for ceasing our prayers. The event certainly has been decided. In a sense, it was decided before all the worlds. But one of the things taken into account in deciding it, and therefore one of the things that really causes it to happen, may be this very prayer that we are now offering. Thus, shocking as it may sound, I conclude that we can at noon become part causes of an event occurring at ten o'clock. (Some scientists would find this easier than popular thought does.) The imagination will, no doubt, try to play all sort of tricks on us at this point. It will ask, 'Then if I stop praying can God go back and alter what has already happened?' No. The event has already happened and one of its causes has been the fact that you are asking such questions instead of praying. It will ask, 'Then if I begin to pray can God go back and alter what has already happened?' No. The event has already happened and one of its causes is your present prayer. Thus something does really depend on my choice. My free act contributes to the cosmic shape. That contribution is made in eternity 'before all worlds'; but my consciousness of contributing reaches me at a particular point in the time series.
C.S. Lewis

"Wretched And Needy"
The more you see how wretched and needy you are, the less the question "How much should I pray?" is an issue for serious debate.
Andree Seu

"Work And Pray"
The things, Good Lord, I pray for, give me Thy grace to labor for.
Sir Thomas More

"Preventing The Fray"
A day hemmed in prayer seldom unravels.
Author Unknown

"Pray Aloud For The Battle Is Fierce"
The main thing I have to say about speaking out loud to God is that I need to do it, somehow. Partly it’s as basic as being able to disentangle my prayers from the stream of random thoughts in my mind: When you pray out loud you know you’ve prayed. Also, prayer that percolates up to the lips, even if in barely a whisper, packs a force that stands a fighting chance against the screaming banshees of desire and mutiny. I pray out loud because the battle in me is fierce and so prayer must be fierce.
Andree Seu

"Open The Windows"
O Light that never fades,
as the light of the day
now streams through these windows
and floods this room,
so let me open to Thee
the windows of my heart,
that all my life may be filled
by the radiance of Thy presence.
John Baillie

"Only In You"

Let me not seek outside you what can only find in you,
O Lord,
Peace and rest, and joy and bliss
which abide only in your abiding joy,
Lift up my soul above the wearing round of harassing
thoughts to your eternal presence.
Lift up my mind to the pure, bright, serene atmosphere of
your presence,
that I may breathe freely,
there repose in your love,
there be at rest from myself
and from all things that weary me:
and thence return, arrayed in your peace, to do and to bear
whatsoever shall best please you, O blessed Lord.
E.B. Pusey

"Come, Lord Jesus"
Prayer is an invitation to God to intervene in our lives.
Abraham Joshua Heschel

"That I May Cleave To You"
O Thou Beloved:
Love eternal,
my whole good,
happiness which has no bounds...
Oh everlasting light,
surpassing all created luminaries,
flash forth Thy lightening from above,
piercing all the most inward parts of my heart.
Make clean,
Make glad,
Make bright,
and make alive my spirit,
with all the powers thereof,
that I may cleave to you
in ecstasies of joy.
Thomas Kempis

"Every Perfect Gift"
Not what we wish,
but what we need,
Oh! let your grace supply,
The good unasked, in mercy grant;
The ill, thought asked, deny.
James Merrik

"Making Intercession"

We beg you, Lord, to help and defend us. Deliver the oppressed. Pity the insignificant. Raise the fallen. Show yourself to the needy. Heal the sick. Bring back those of your people who have gone astray. Feed the hungry. Lift up the weak. Take off the prisoners’ chains. May every nation come to know that you alone are God, that Jesus is your Child, that we are your people, the sheep that you pasture. Amen.
Clement of Rome

"I Would Surrender Myself To You"
O Lord,
reassure me with Your quickening Spirit; without You I can do nothing.
Mortify in me all ambition, vanity, vainglory, worldliness, pride,
selfishness, and resistance from God,
and fill me with love, peace, and all the fruits of the Spirit.
O Lord, I know not what I am, but to You I flee for refuge.
I would surrender myself to You, trusting Your precious promises
and against hope believing in hope.
You are the same yesterday, today, and forever; and therefore,
waiting on the Lord, I trust that I shall at length renew my strength.
William Wilberforce

"The Good Pleasure Of Thy Will"
Grant me, O Lord, to know what I ought to know,
to love what I ought to love,
to praise what delights Thee most,
to value what is precious in Thy sight,
to hate what is offensive to Thee.
Do not suffer me to judge according to the sight of my eyes,
nor to pass sentence according to the hearing of the ears of ignorant men;
but to discern with a true judgment between things visible and spiritual,
and above all,
always to inquire what is the good pleasure of Thy will.
Thomas a Kempis

"Grant Us"
O You, from whom to be turned is to fall,
to whom to be turned is to rise,
and in whom to stand is to abide for ever:

Grant us in all our duties your help
in all our perplexities your guidance,
in all our dangers your protection,
and in all our sorrows your peace;
through Jesus Christ our Lord
Augustine

"Monty's Prayer"
Good morning, Lord. it’s me Monty. Thank you for this wonderful day! Thank you for letting me live it for you. Stretch my wings and take me to where you want me to be. Take my eyes and show me what you want me to see. Take my heart and show me how to care. Take all of my skills and training and let it all be to your glory. For all I have ALL I HAVE, is but a gift from Thee. Take all of my life, my breath, my soul and let it be consecrated unto Thee.
Author Unknown

"Let My Heart Be Warmed"
O most loving Father of Jesus Christ, from whom flows all love, let my heart, frozen in sin, cold to you and cold to others, be warmed by this divine fire.
Anselm of Canterbury

"Take Possession Of Our Hearts"
O Lord Jesus Christ,
word and revelation of the Eternal Father,
come, we pray You,
take possession of our hearts
and reign where you have right to reign.
So fill our minds with the thought
and our imaginations with the picture of your love,
that there may be in us no room for any desire
that is discordant with your holy will.
Cleanse us,
we pray you,
from all that may make us deaf to your call
or slow to obey it,
Who, with the Father and the Holy Spirit,
art one God,
blessed forever.
William Temple

"Good Gifts"
Holy Spirit, Truth divine, 
dawn upon this soul of mine;
Word of God and inward light,
wake my spirit, clear my sight.

Holy Spirit, Love divine,
glow within this heart of mine;
kindle every high desire;
perish self in thy pure fire.

Holy Spirit, Power divine,
fill and nerve this will of mine;
grant that I may strongly live,
bravely bear, and nobly strive.

Holy Spirit, Right divine,
King within my conscience reign;
be my Lord, and I shall be
firmly bound, forever free.
Samuel Longfellow